But that is not holiness and that is not freedom. It’s easy to get so focus on the bad fruit of our lives that our striving for holiness becomes behavior management. And in order to stop bad fruit from growing we need to uproot the entire tree, not just pick off the fruit as it comes. We need to think of lust and porn use as the bad fruits in our lives. We don’t want to spend the rest of our lives moving from battle to battle. The end goal is freedom from porn and lust. Though winning the battle of the moment is an absolute victory, that is not the end goal. If you train yourself to the point that you can say “no” to the temptation to roll over when you hear your alarm, you will be better equipped to say “no” when lust and the desire for porn arises. These can all seem like trivial non-spiritual practices, but each one of these require you to set your comfort aside. Set an alarm and wake up earlier than is comfortableĮxercise - especially when if you don’t feel like it Here’s a game plan to prepare for the moment of temptation: You must train up your will to be able to meet the temptation in the moment. If you’ve trained yourself for comfort, you shouldn’t expect sudden heroism. If you’ve trained yourself to say “yes'“ to every other bodily comfort throughout your day, it’s unreasonable to think you can say no to one of the strongest biological urges you’ll ever experience. If you’re used to sleeping in, eating whatever you want whenever you want, spending hours on your phone, and playing video games as your way to escaping responsibility - when the moment to say “no” to porn comes you won’t do it. That battle is completely unwinnable if you are used to giving in to all other types of bodily desires and comforts on a daily basis. 1) Start Saying “No” To Creature Comfortsįighting the temptation to watch porn isn’t fought only in the moment the temptation comes. Sometimes we need to change more than just our prayer lives for God to work in our healing that bring about freedom. But let’s add some more strategies to your battle. Keep praying, keep fasting, keep going to confession. Freedom from lust and pornography is possible. Here is the message of hope you’ve been looking for. If you’ve ever been tempted to accept the idea that your yo-yo fight with porn will last the rest of your life, keep reading. If that is the formula to success, and we are still struggling - we begin to wonder - maybe we’re the problem. It is disheartening to hear that you need to pray more when you feel as though that’s all you’ve been doing, and fell anyway. And if we fall again - more prayer, more fasting, more frequent confession. Many of us go to confession, longing to hear a message of hope and freedom and many times instead we are given the same advice - prayer, fasting, frequent confession. Yet, they are filled with such shame because the devil is convincing them that their vice is a special kind of vice that God will not heal.įor many of us, in the heat of battle against lust and temptation, what causes us to give in is not the temptation itself, but our exhaustion from fighting for so long without any end in sight. The men I talk to are men who pray daily, go to frequent confession, and fast from food regularly. One of the recurring themes that come up are the reality of ever being totally free. I know many men who feel plagued by their lust and desire for porn. What I have gotten push back with is whether or not freedom from porn use exists. That being said, I’ve rarely gotten push back from men about the need to end their porn use. If you need more information as to why pornography is the absolute worst thing you could do for your family and your role as husband and father take a look here. And Ive been told I have a talent for writing.I wrote about Why Men Need To Stop Watching Porn in the past. I just fancy myself a decent empath with a good imagination and fascination with sexual psychology. Locked together in a hot bath of each others fluids, throbbing, in complete satisfaction as shes made to feel like the slut shes hungered her entire life to be. At this point, feeling the weight of his body as he mounts, and the electrified anticipation at the proximity of their converging interspecies genitalia is enough to orgasm.

Primeval instincts that laid long dormant & repressed begin firing up again when shes made aware of whats about to happen. To be the proper bitch she was made to be. An indulgence in the deepest of cravings.

Its primal essence & taboo inextricably tied to being nonhuman. A place as much in her soul as between her legs. The beast cock touches the nether regions of her inner slut.

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